Photo of a cake with five candles, streamers and a peg board with 'Frocks and Fairycakes 5 today' on it

Half a decade…

Today marks five years, half a decade, of me writing Frocks and Fairycakes!

It doesn’t feel like it’s been a year since I wrote about my wee blog turning four. And last year writing that milestone felt like a big deal. Getting to five years somehow feels different. Bigger. And mostly because I really don’t normally stick to anything!

I started writing this blog when I was 25. Even that seems like a lifetime ago. Frocks and Fairycakes came about as an outlet for my creativity. A way to escape my boring day job for the big bank and do something that felt more “me”. Maybe I was going through some sort of quarter-life crisis…? When I first started blogging I didn’t tell anyone about it. I didn’t want any of my real life people knowing about it. Someone I knew IRL finding me on Instagram was the worst thing ever! Now? Now I love to tell people I’m a blogger. Hell, it’s on my CV.

Setting up a blog with no tech knowledge at all was not really that easy. Despite getting started on Blogger – a fairly easy platform to use – I still had to figure out how to get widgets on my blog. Mostly because I wanted my Instagram feed down the side! When I was 25 I was living back with my Mum though. This must have been how I had time to figure it all out – I didn’t have any housework or cooking to do!

That being said, I really do cringe when I look back at old photos on my blog. Or remind myself of how it used to look! I never used to edit my photos! Occasionally I would crop them with PicMonkey (back when it was free). I definitely used to do more outfit related posts, mainly because I didn’t know what to write about! I also seemed to have the ‘moody blogger’ look down to a tee. With my new photographer, I find it hard not to smile or laugh when we take photos!

Even in the last year, there have been some changes to the blog. I made the leap (finally) away from Blogger and actually spent some money on it. A new theme has also resulted in me being a lot happier with the look. It feels more grown up. I’ve also been seeing an increase in opportunities. Which I’m super happy about! I’m not sure if that’s a result of the move and the new look or whether it’s almost five years of work paying off. Either way, I’m not complaining!

The move away from Blogger really wouldn’t have happened without the geeky knowledge Mark possesses. He pretty much did everything for me in terms of moving it over and getting it to look just how I wanted. So he now has the added responsibility of helping with the website maintenance as well as being my photographer (and daily Instagram boyfriend).

I’m sure the next year will again fly in. I hope that when I get to six years I’m feeling just as enthusiastic about writing. I’m still amazed that people actually want to read what I write about, and I hope that continues.

Oh, and damn right I bought myself a cake to celebrate turning five! Because I love any excuse for cake…

 

The name Kayleigh written in pink cursive font.

 

Photograph taken by me

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